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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here

Some clarifications:

We have a parenting schedule inside the house so we both take different days with the kids

My conversation with the kids happened while I was in town. He seems to have heard about it while I was out of town.

I accept that I could have just let it go as other posters mentioned. I think talking to the kids about it is a grey area and assume it would be fine in a healthy relationship. The kids were not upset, they were like fine we’ll watch X show with him which is what he has been watching with them all along, I said that’s a great show and end of talk.

We separated for six months recently. During the separation he was very nasty to me. I mentioned taking the kids to a museum because it was raining one day on spring break and my friend had said it was nice. [b]He also had wanted to take the kids to this museum. He told me “if you take the kids there and ask your friend about it, I will text both your friend and her husband and tell them we are getting a divorce.”[/b] That’s the kind of jerk behavior he thinks is OK.

Yes there is likely a mental health issue here, but no he hasn’t gotten evaluated.[/quote]

So you know it’s not a “gray area” TO HIM. And knowing that, you should not have said anything about it to the kids.

I would pre-empt him and tell the friend and husband that you are getting divorced. Threat of disclosure over!

Having a kid with anxiety and one with ADHD is not the kind of “special needs” that prevent divorce. You don’t have a who kid needs a trach suctioned ten times a day. I would bet money that “anxious kid” gets far less anxious when not living with this lunatic.

Good luck.[/quote]

OP here

I didn’t say anything about the museum to the kids. I mentioned it to him because I knew he had wanted to go and wanted to make sure it was OK. Instead of saying like a normal person that he would prefer to be the first to take them, he exploded.

But yes. He has threatened that a lot. At this point I’m over it.[/quote]

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