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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The marriage is over. Why are you feeling sad about her well being? After all she filed so let her deal with that decision. Just get yourself mentally and physically ready for a new journey. Lots of women out there to choose from. [/quote]

PP, did you totally miss that they have children? In his shoes I would be concerned about what life with mom is going to be like for their children. If mom's mental issues go untreated, the whole waking up and screaming at the kids thing will possibly worsen, and dad will not be there to mitigate it (if he does that now; I'm not sure he really does).

OP, a PP above was right that she should take thyroid meds on an empty stomach and wait a few hours before eating--first thing in a.m. or at bedtime. My DH's moods are FAR better with his properly taken thyroid meds.

But it sounds like your wife is off kilter -- Announcing divorce via text (who does that?!), then she loves you, then she wants to divorce....Have you actually sat down, kept your cool, and talked to her about why she has been veering from one thing to another? Are you, OP, willing to say that you want to put divorce talk on hold until you and she both get outside help? I know, she swears she won't do marriage counseling but she sounds like she needs individual therapy ASAP so she can know her own mind before she plunges ahead. And another PP who mentioned depression or bipolar disorder may have the right idea -- your DW needs screening.

But YOU, OP, absolutely must put work on the back burner immediately and focus time and energy on her and your kids, whether it all ends in divorce or not. Your kids need a mentally healthy mother whether you and she stay together or she has the kids 50 percent of the time after divorce and you, OP, need to help make that happen. [/quote]

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