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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You never do thanksgiving with your side of the family.  I think you rotate.  Go with your family this year his next.[/quote]Then what about Christmas?[/quote]
The ILs don’t celebrate Christmas. The fact that they don’t celebrate Christmas does not mean they get automatic dibs on Thanksgiving every year. Obviously the train has gone pretty far down the tracks for OP to start going to thanksgiving at the ILs every other year, but I think she would have been fine to do that from the outset. And I’m sorry but having great holiday memories is a thing, as opposed to a crappy Thanksgiving that your kids hate, which is something they hang onto through adulthood as the holiday they don’t like because it was never enjoyable. Life is too short for this martyrdom at the holidays. Visit ILs for another long weekend that isn’t tied to a holiday. [/quote]

The two times towards the end of the year that people universally have time off work and school is Thanksgiving and Christmas. OP already claims the latter for her family. Is DH thrilled to use all his time off with OP’s family? Or is he supposed to put up and shut up? It’s not just about wha OP feels like doing.[/quote]

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