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I'm going to directly answer OP's question.  I'm now 40 & very happily married but it took a long time.  I was known as a "Very Attractive women" in my dating years in very competitive markets- NYC, DC.  Yes I had LOTS of dates and LOTS of attention and it was fun, but none of that matters if you don't have chemistry.  I very much wanted to settle down and get married in my late 20s/early 30s and had my heartbroken several times because we just weren't a match.  Especially in places like DC- most men aren't willing to marry just a pretty face and they value way more.
Many, many of my ex's are married to women that many would consider far "less attractive looking" than me because chemistry and intimacy aren't necessarily tied to that.  You cannot force serious connection- no matter how good looking or charming you are.  Thankfully, after many dates and years, I found the person I was supposed to be with on many levels.  [/quote]

Lots of women are called "very attractive." Truly beautiful women get proposal after proposal.

Yes, it's possible that the man after man broke your  heart to marry much less attractive women. It's more likely that your looks were less exceptional than you think and that these men dropped you for women whose looks were on par with yours or better.  [/quote]

So you think truly beautiful women have it all made? They never experience heartache, have everything go their way and everything turns out just peachy?  Sorry but you are wrong[/quote]

They have a number of problems, including being dismissed as daft bevause of their looks. Also, they attract shallow men. But the ultra attractive women I've come across have no problems getting proposals. And men tend to choose more attractive women for long term relationships unless there's a big difference in class or education.[/quote]

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