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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^and I never said I expect to be the center of my daughters' worlds! But it's really playing dumb and disingenuous to not admit that there's a difference in adult mother/daughter relationships than adult mother/son relationships. There just is. I still rely on my mom for emotional support in way that no man I know does. And if I expected my son to rely on me in that way as an adult you would all jump in to say that's creepy and overbearing! [/quote]

I appreciate your clarifications.  I just personally think it's a weird way to look at things.  Yes, you're the center of their lives when they're little, but that to me always felt a bit like the overbearing part of parenting not the best part of parenting.  The best part is that they love you the most in the world and you're the center of their universe?  I just personally can't relate.

Your making generalizations about mother/daughter vs mother/son relationships.  Many (not a few) of my female friends have pretty terrible relationships with their moms.  Some people are very close to their mothers.  If anything, I would say most (not all) of the men I know have great and healthy relationships with their mom.  Close enough and positive.  I think mother/daughter relationships have a lot of land mines that get stepped on a lot.[/quote]

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