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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell him dating and cohabitating is fine but don't get married.  Check on wills/trusts and [b]if he does get married insist on a pre-nup. [/b] [/quote]

It's not the adult child's prerogative.    It's the Dad's decision to make.

My Dh's dad got engaged just a few months after Dh's mom died.   Dh's sister tried to insist that FIL get a prenup but FIL refused.  Nothing his adult kids could do about it.[/quote]

Sort of disagree. A lot of the time it was half their former wife’s money. And the dead wife wanted money to go to kids once he passed. Instead new younger wife usually gets it all and wills it to only her children once she dies. [/quote]

Sort of disagree?  It's not about opinion, it's a fact.   OP has no legal right to "insist" on any legal matters for her Dad, since he is still of sound mind and she does not have any type of guardianship over him.

My MIL actually told FIL on her deathbed that she didn't want him to remarry because she "didn't want someone else to enjoy the money she had worked so hard for."  Yet, he was engaged less than 4 months later.[/quote]

This is why my assets are going into a trust for our kids if I predecease DH. I want him to be happy and remarry, if that's what he wants, but I also don't want money to be diverted away from our children.[/quote]

how did you structure this? what did your dh say?

while i can see my dh remarrying, i can't ever imagine that he would abandon our kids. it's just not how he rolls.[/quote]

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