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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
[b]Ask[/b] for a phone number.
[b]Ask[/b] out on a date. ...
[b]Ask[/b] to hold hands.
[b]Ask[/b] for a kiss. ... without the expectation of more.
[b]Have a discussion[/b] about whether you are monogamous and exclusive before having sex.
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Asking, discussing, negotiating, and begging are not sexy.  A confident, successful, socially calibrated man does not need to ask.  If she showed up for the date and shaved her legs, then she wants a kiss.

[i]“If you think you can kiss her, you probably could have ten minutes ago.”[/i]
— Mark Manson

D.C. has lots of slender women.
https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/prevalence-maps.html

But they are not eager because:
[i]Women ages 16-29 in the Washington-Arlington-Alexandria, DC-VA-MD-WV metro area earned 102% of what men their age earned in 2019.[/i]
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/interactives/wage-gap-calculator/washington-arlington-alexandria-dc-va-md-wv/16_29/

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Wow I didn't think I'd come on DCUM and see people encouraging others to avoid asking for consent! [/quote]

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