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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - am very confused, on one side I feel that maybe he did not want me to worry and so did not mention / but not sure why he did not just delete the conversation. I don't see any change in his behavior with me - any perspective from men would be great. He is 43 year old man and we have 2 teen kids. [/quote]

So just ask him. Be honest about how you found it, even if you were snooping. And ask "Do I have anything to worry about here? Why is this lady asking you to play as a couple? Do you think she's attracted to you? Are you attracted to her? Is this a good idea?"

My husband knows if I found something like that on his phone, I'd call him in less than 30 seconds and ask what is up with this message? He's done the same to me. He can sniff out a guy flirting with me very fast.

There's nothing wrong with wanting some reassurance that I am not reciprocating. It's okay to ask questions in a respectful way. My husband and I think a little jealousy is natural and we are humans. And it's not like cheating doesn't happen so it's natural to guard your marriage.

--Married 18 years, pretty happy so we are hoping to live until our 90's!
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