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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I use our phones fairly interchangeably. I’m not going to find my phone upstairs if his is right beside me and I need to google something. Heck, our 11 year old knows our phone passwords. We have nothing to hide on there. But I also don’t consider it snooping when I’m away from my phone and my husband says “hey, your sister just texted.” I’m sure he glanced at the content that flashed up.

But back to the OP. I am super curious about what this invite really was. For example, we joined a swim and tennis club last summer and my husband is pretty good. I don’t play. Two different women I know (whose husbands don’t play) asked my husband to play with them in a mixed doubles tournament. I certainly wasn’t worried they were trying to steal my husband or that he would cheat. [/quote]

This is how my ex-spouse and I were and it gave me a total false sense of security.

He didn’t text or call through his cell.  Their communication was all through Skype internet messaging/voice or other internet app which were not stored on his cell.

I would have likely discovered cheating much much earlier except I felt he was an open book.  We shared passwords and an Apple ID account.

Burner emails are common too.[/quote]

Same poster. Yes, I realize that is my husband was actually going to cheat on me, he wouldn’t be stupid enough to do it openly on his phone. I was responding more to the posters that seem to assume that sharing phones means you are a BIG SNOOPER AND TERRIBLE SPOUSE.[/quote]

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