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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I'm in the same boat only have no doubts about my husband's sexuality (absolutely know he is not gay).

Read the Sex Starved Wife. Helpful and informative and you are not alone.

[b]Sex is often very prevalent in the beginning of a relationship [/b]because infatuation makes even low-desire people ready for sex. Hormones and chemicals take over and raise libido...you want to do everything you can to please and connect with your new partner. This usually lasts around 2 years.  For us, we had sex every night and morning we were together those first two years. Then the next two years, at least 2x a week (we weren't living together and sometimes didn't see each other that much during the week due to week schedules, but would have sex every weekend). Starting after year 4 is when problems took over...started having sex less and less. [/quote]

It's mostly lust at the beginning.  Our frequency started going down when we were busy at work, trying to have a baby, buy a house, the usual.  What worked for us is that we both have a very vivid fantasy life.  We started getting toys, showering together, different rooms, positions, etc. into our lives and the sex took off again.  I even tried leaving dirty messages on the phone so that when DH gets home and the kids are gone, it is our time to go crazy.[/quote]

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