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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I prefer “broadening your horizons” rather than “lowering your standards.” Unless your standards are superficial like height and income. You want to marry a gainfully employed adult, but he doesn’t have to make $200K. Teachers and firefighters can make terrific husbands. So can men under 5’10. As for weight, be honest with yourself and your values. If you are overweight yourself or are just not that physical, come to terms with the fact that most Americans, including eligible men, are overweight. However, if you are an avid hiker and biker and outdoors person, an overweight couch potato won’t share your values and it’s OK to swipe left. Don’t limit yourself to just your same race and background and education level. I don’t understand how, in 2023, there are people in metropolitan USA who believe that they should only marry within their own race. Be open to people who at first seem like huge nerds about their own things. Let them show you their world. Get to know people and just be a good human [/quote] Ugh! Most people are not married to super cool male models. The vast majority are married to your average joe who cheat barely participate in the household and child rearing or expect to be guided like a child. This is true of men of all backgrounds and we can't just assume that culture and background are not hurdles that can cause issues in marriage. Some of you really talk out of your rears[/quote]
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