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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Screwing a married man is wrong. Period. I have never and would never do that to another woman because it is a question of MY integrity. Similarly, I would not steal money from a person I don't know.[/quote]

I don't think anyone disagrees that it is wrong.  I think people are saying that in the long term, it usually isn't helpful to the wife to focus a lot of energy on being angry at the OW.[/quote]

You'd be surprised. I've been reading "he cheated on me" threads since I found DCUM and there is a vocal minority of women who think there is nothing wrong with dating a married man and that the OW owes the wife nothing. They frequently hide behind the logic of "he took the vows, not me." It's disgusting.

Anyway, while the DH is the primary party here, it's also perfectly fine to hate the OW. Those are valid and normal feelings and it's counterproductive, IMHO, to tell the wife that feeling mad at the OW also is wrong - at least in the short run.

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