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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is a banker and I'm a social worker. He knew our incomes would be imbalanced going in, We both worked hard although I've always had a fair amount of flexibility in terms of work (something that is pretty damn valuable when you have kids!). During covid, I spent a couple years as a SAHP because it was best for our family and now working again. My flexibility has allowed his career to flourish and our family benefits as a result. You may feel very differently once you have kids.

Our marriage is our greatest source of happiness and stability. We're a team and that's the way we both view it. [/quote]
did he ask for a prenup? What would happen if you got divorced?  You'd take half his assets, right? That's what OP is afraid of.

If OP doesn't want to worry about that, then he needs to marry a woman who earns near to him. However, if he does that, he also needs to be a co-parent, meaning, he needs to be ready to put his career on the back burner sometimes to deal with childcare and house chores.  Is OP ready for that?  Or does OP want a sahm so he doesn't have to worry about any of that and just focus on his career, and for her to also stay slim and hot and ready for sex whenever OP wants it?

Women may not be able to have everything, but neither can a man.[/quote]

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