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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to shift your focus off of her. Make sure that there are good times every day with you and younger DD and you by yourself and you and DH and you and older DD. She cannot ruin "whole" days, that is you projecting onto it and awfulizing what is pretty typical behavior. She feels that you don't like her and are only seeing her in a bd light. Kids want to feel positive and don't like having that kind of power. You need to disengage like 80% with her and reengage in a happy way with your own life and the other members of your family. What if she went to stay with a relative for a week or so to kind of break the tension? [/quote]
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