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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a question that I really want the truthful answer.  If I asked IRL, I'd probably get a very nice polite answer.  So, here goes:

I am overweight.  I am not rich.  I have cankles and nobby-knees.  and I'm old.

I am trying to lose weight, but of course it takes time (I've lost 15lbs so far, but I'm only losing about a lb a week, and I'm still fat).  I like the look of nice things, but can't afford them.  But, if I see a purse with the LV logo, or a coach-type purse at Marshalls I'll get it because I think it's pretty - certainly not to pretend I have something I don't.  I have also been wearing sleevless or short sleeves.  I'm usually conservative (I never wear shorts or shorter skirts - always capris or capri-length skirts) but it's so dang hot outside, it's hard to find cool tops with sleeves that go to your elbow.

So, my question is, when you see me on the metro, or walking on the street or in the elevator with my fat arms exposed, fake LV or coach purse and non-designer capri pants, do you really think the things you say here on DCUM?  I really just thought of myself as a non-event.  I really thought that the skinny-rich-designer women just don't even notice or care that I walked by (or are in the elevator).  I am genuinely curious.  Do you spend minutes (or seconds) or whatever really having a judgy thought about me or am I a non-issue IRL and the judgy stuff just comes out when the topic of exposed fat arms, fake designers, or cheap dress comes up.  then you give it some thought and respond truthfully?  [/quote]

guy here. havent read any responses yet but based on this reading alone you are insecure as fuck and put too much weight (no pun) on what you think skinny "rich" people are thinking of you.

you can be fat rich or fat poor. in my book, you are just fat. you can have a real LV bag or a fake one. you are still fat. you can dress poorly and in ill fitting clothes and you are still just fat.

if i choose to comment on your fake bag or your lack of style, you being fat will have nothing to do with it because a skinny person will get the same comments from me if i choose to go there.

in the end, the truth here is that you are insecure. you walk around looking at skinny women who YOU think are sitting looking at you with evil thoughts in their head when thats probably not the case. sure there are mean people out there but guess what? its probably not the "rich" person in chevy chase making fun of you. its probably a fake LV bag carrying out of style average person just like you.

there are fat rich people out there in case you didnt know.

why dont you focus on losing weight instead of focusing on imaginary people out there who you think are wasting their time away concerned about how fat you are.[/quote]

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