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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband seems dense tbh and you seem to be pretty tight with finances. 
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+1 but I believe op. Their income is 300k and her dh is desperate to have 2x/year guys trips any way he can get it, even if that means justifying this "big inheritance" to be reallocated to guys trip money so op will let him go. I think op is being smart about budgeting but resentful about his determination for spending on those trips over making any plans with her. He is dim and she is frustrated! I'm sure he is dim enough to consider divorce but smart enough to know it doesn't do him any favors to bail out any time soon so I don't think this is about getting ducks in a row on his part. Pps fail to understand the draw of the guys trip on certain types of men. I know another high earning woman whose dh will insist their lives revolve around his guys trips. He makes much less but does the big spending on fun adventures fishing, glamping, hunting with the best equipment and its not about illicit affairs though I can see how a reasonable spouse would find the spending and time allotment obscene. He is being petulant and completely blind to op's desire to spend money and time with him on their own vacation. Op should take a big lavish trip on her own but they make 300k with family to support, tuitions and more. This just sucks all around, and the big issue is the dh's lack of comprehension on several issues.[/quote]

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