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[quote=Anonymous]I dialed down my career and became an independent contractor so I’m my own boss. I control my schedule 100% and when I’m traveling and can’t make things, DH will step up to go. No regrets whatsoever. I’m very active at the school, volunteer a lot, etc…. My kid is in elementary (4th grade now) and those early years fly by, and I really wanted to be present for him. By middle school, I think the opportunity is lost because when older they don’t want mom and dad around. I asked DS one time if he likes it that I do a lot at the school and if I should cut back. He said no, he likes that I’m there and know most of the kids. One time I volunteered in class and this sweet girl said to me that she wished her mom could volunteer sometimes. The kids notice. For new parents, if you can, cut back a little on the career for your kid. It’s a few short years. Lastly those that chime in is right. The activities schedule after school can be very challenging and stressful to coordinate if you don’t have flexibility. Luckily we do. We only have 1 kid and are busy. I cannot imagine juggling 2 kids activities during the week. [/quote]
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