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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your honesty is very refreshing OP, and I truly feel for you. 💔

However you need to seek individual personal counseling to figure out why you want to continue in a marriage where your partner is being so untrue to you.

You say you do not want to leave this man - yet by staying you are tossing all of your dignity to the wind.
You will always be questioning your husband’s integrity & the stress/anxiety this will cause will be a living hell.

You deserve to be treated w/love, respect + honor.
Until you are &gt;&gt; you will constantly be settling for much less than your worth.

I know leaving your husband is not something you want to do, but anything aside from divorce will damage your self-esteem to the core.

Learn to love yourself…..
    Value yourself. ♥️[/quote]

DP. Responses like this are unhelpful. It is not damaging to OP’s dignity to remain married to a man she loves and to keep her intact family intact. Her husband is the one damaging his own dignity, not hers.[/quote]

I disagree.
Staying married to someone who continues to cheat on you IS most definitely affecting your dignity.
How can it not??

How can one have dignity within themselves if they choose to remain with a partner who chooses to have sex with other people?
To tolerate such behavior is showing that one does not love themselves as such behavior is the hugest sign of disrespect known to mankind.

All the people on here claiming that they would not leave a marriage if they were cheated on are consciously choosing to accept a life which would be subpar.

Subpar because they would be choosing to live with far less than they truly deserve.
We all only get ONE life each.
And it is up to us to make that one life count.
Which means to never accept less than what we all deserve.[/quote]

She deserves not to have her life further negatively impacted by the crime if that’s what she wants. [/quote]

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