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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This was me a few months ago. I hardly did any childcare, I did no cleaning, I have no job, no volunteer work, no taking kids places, etc. I was at the peak of a year-long struggle with some mystery illness that made me fatigued and gave me serious brain fog. The health thing sucked, but the biggest struggle was feeling useless and therefore worthless. Logically I knew that I wasn’t worthless even if took from others more than I gave, but there was a part of me that thought the world would be better off if I was dead. I hope OP that if you are ever beset with health issues that make it so you can’t contribute, you have already taken a hard look at yourself about what it means to value people based on how much they “contribute.” [/quote] +1 I actually do have a job but have struggled with a long term illness that is not particularly visible to outsiders. If OP is my neighbor who is judging me like this, I suggest that you contribute positively to society by foregoing judgment & focusing on your own life.[/quote] If there were no health issues? Would you be doing something? Like what? [/quote]
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