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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.

Thanks for the thoughtful feedback. We actually live in a different metro area (not DC). To answer some of the questions - he is not rich but he has a good professional job. OTOH I'm probably underemployed, working for my mom in a small family business (which is its own annoyan[b]ce). His kids are significantly older than mine (the oldest will be graduating HS in a couple years)[/b]. 
You are.closer in age to his child than him. 
It seems he married and had kids young and instead of growing up he's trying to relive his youth. 
He gets along with his ex and he only has his[b] kids 2 days a week[/b] . It's a red flag for me when a dad sees his kids so little. Mom is doing the heavy lifting so be prepared that you will be doing the same should the relationship continue.
Physically he's in great shape (but is losing a little hair at the back) and we're very compatible there. And to the poster who said I must be fat - I'm not - [b]I've had a kid but haven't let myself go at all. Still get plenty of attention when I'm out.
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You're 26 this isn't special.

Coming at you like your mom or aunt it doesn't seem like you or anyone else has had any expectations for you or your life you're just coasting along and seeing what happens. I think you are better than just coasting. What do you want for your life and your kid? What are your plans and goals?. You are very young and this is a great time to work on that. Make plan. Don't just accept what happens to you or crumbs

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