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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would think they aren't punishing in front of others because they think it will cause a more disruptive meltdown and that would make others uncomfortable. [/quote]

Yeah, my normally well-behaved kid had a meltdown the other day at a coffee shop patio. I had warned him not to do something, he did it, and the (previously communicated) consequence was that we had to leave. I had to strap him into the stroller and walk out while he was kicking and screaming. I got some dirty looks from people and it was frustrating.[/quote]

I'm sorry you got dirty looks. My 3 year old started screaming in the pizza restaurant and I immediately took him out. People told me what a great mom I was. That's what they should have said to you. Discipline is hard on parents too, but immediately removing kids is always the best. [/quote]

Kids have tantrums, I would not discipline a kid having a tantrum  their nervous system is in overdrive, discipline is pointless during a tantrum, they need to be comforted. I have a problem with kids who have developed zero emotional regulation due to lax parenting. The 6 year old that punches, bites, screams, cusses out the majority of the time they don’t get what they want. There are a lot of little Napoleons out there.[/quote]

I’m confused. Are you agreeing or disagreeing? I took my kid out of the restaurant. I didn’t spank them. We went outside and walked, calmed down. We talked about how to behave in restaurants.

I can’t stand parents who comfort during a public tantrum. No. I think if you were in private that’s what you should do, but in public the priority is to not annoy everyone else. It’s actually not okay to let your kid scream in public. [/quote]

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