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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op they don’t need to sell the house.  How are you helping except to micromanage.    Instead of complaining you should thank your sister and get on a plane and help.  [/quote]

Can't get on a plane and help. I did that for 2 months two years ago - left family, business, all responsibilities here. Now I've injured my back and can't go without making it worse, Had my folks and sister listened five years ago and brought themselves closer to us, we could be helping. They didn't. My sister NOW understands why I had that idea but its too late.

The only way to keep the house is for my husband and I to pay all their bills and expenses. That would significantly hurt us, especially since there will also be expenses for aides, etc. Are you planning to kick in? We really could use your money. [/quote]

If you will not help, stop complaining.  You are not paying for anything nor will you so again stay out of it.  I took care of my mil for years so I have far more empathy for your sister.

Get on a plane and go help.

Let’s be real, even if they were closer you would not help.  [/quote]

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