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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Don’t panic over the O2 sensor, it won’t disable your car - you can definitely wait a few weeks if that fits your budget better. I speak from long experience with O2 sensors and what mechanics have always told me.[/b]

I caution you against agreeing to his new terms for paying utilities, wherein you pay up front and he’s going to pay you back (sure, right). You need to demand that he fork over the cash the day the bill is paid, or that he provide the card he’s been providing all along. [b]There is no reason for him to be changing that situation except that he’s getting ready to cheat you. Is his name on the utilities, or just yours?[/b]

[b]Please, embrace your inner cynic and second guess everything he says or does. Be suspicious. He has just utterly betrayed you and warrants no benefit of the doubt and no continued loyalty from you, he is a snake in the grass and you must operate from the expectation that he is looking to strike at every turn.[/b] [/quote]

Thank you, based on my conversation with the oreillys guy I got the same idea that the 02 sensor is not a need to change today or else type of situation.

When he said he wouldn't give me his credit card to pay his portion of the utilities I didn't argue. I just said ok as to not further the conflict. I agree, I mean when I log in to pay his card information is already saved as a payment method anyways. Obviously I'm not going to charge his half to his card since he doesn't agree to it but this is all just so irritating. Mind you our bills are now a couple weeks late because Ive been asking for the card for a couple weeks and he's been saying 'yes, I will give you the card' but he never did. The electric is in my name only and the water/sewer is in both names since the county requires that it be in the names of both homeowners.

Yes, I agree that I can no longer trust his words or actions. I've have been in constant prayer for God to give me the strength to not stoop to his level and guide my actions so as to not meet his mentality with an eye for an eye because honestly that's just not the kind of person that I am. Am I hurt? Yes. Am I angry? Yes. Am I sad about the life we were building an the future plans that we made? Yes.

But I'm just so glad that the truth has been revealed now before I waste any more time on him. How does that saying go...fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me

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I mean, ya.  You need to move into problem solving mode.  List the house and split whatever little equity you have.  Find a rental that you can afford.  Your job now is to protect your kids.  Dealing with him in the interim needs to be unemotional.  Stop focusing on right v wrong or whatever and just protect your kids and your finances.  [/quote]

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