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[quote=Anonymous]“I guess there's nothing much we can do at this point. DH told her to reschedule, that he won't be here and that I have to work. She insists on coming” You need to call her bluff and DH needs to tell her that if she shows up you will not answer the door, because this is not a good time for the two of you and he would love to have her visit but let’s pick some dates that are acceptable for everyone. Yes of course this is going to be excruciating and of course she is going to do everything she can to get you to cave. But if you do not establish some boundaries you are going to be freaking miserable. So what if she is unhappy? Right now you are unhappy. Someone’s gonna be unhappy in the situation and it doesn’t have to be you. What she is asking is completely unacceptable. Even family does not get to just show up whenever they feel like and camp out for weeks without permission.[/quote]
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