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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is definitely an old school mode of thinking that would be “ok, he makes a ton of money that buys you a luxury lifestyle and he’s only around three nights a week.  Stay out of his hair the nights he is home and enjoy your life otherwise.”

I  usually disagree with the above but honestly I don’t see what OP wins in a divorce.  She would have less custody of her daughter and less money.  It looks like it is feasible to just avoid her husband in their big house while he is home.  Let him explode the microwave, like everyone else says.  Let him work out his relationship with his daughter.  If they’re divorced that’s what would happen anyway.[/quote]

This is my post and I just saw that OP’s DH is a cheater too and on top of the other behavior it’s just a bridge too far.  I recant the above.  If he were just a difficult personality and she were dealing with him a few nights a week it would be worth figuring out how to manage.  But with cheating in the equation it’s totally different, in my opinion.  He could be exposing her to disease and getting ready to dump her at any time.[/quote]

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