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[quote=Anonymous]Op is as much the problem as her friend.

Anyone who doesn't accept a "no" from a person is controlling and/or manipulative. This person has no respect for what op says. This person clearly is not a good friend.

Op doesn't deal with it directly.  Op needs to say "what you are doing is not normal and it is disrespectful to me. If I say I need time, a do not text 25 times. That is rude. Stop it now. We do not need to be constantly texting/calling. We are good enough friends that we both know that. "

Op's friend texted her non stop when she was having a dinner party. That is beyond. Op needs to use her words again and be direct. "We have talked about this in the past. If I have to I will block your number and this may end our friendship. Respect my needs when I say I need time/space."

Then op needs to stop fing responding.

Op is clearly getting off on this dynamic. Does it make you feel superior OP knowing you know how to pull your "friend's" strings so she panics?

It sounds like both of you are 12. Are you really so helpless that you can't figure out how to address this like an adult:?

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