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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd demand answers. Why leave elephant in the room when you're paying her bills? I'd tell her no more until she sits and explains why she is so disrespectful. [/quote] Here's an idea: Instead of "demanding," be curious about the why. If you think you will get an honest, productive response by "demanding" your kid tell you why they are unhappy, etc, you are likely just to get more distance. The way you say and frame things with teenagers makes a world of difference. "Demanding" is just letting your own emotions get out of control. [/quote]
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