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How do some women have all the luck! Do they cast a spell![/quote]

It's not luck, and no one is casting any spells. It's being selective. My DH is the most amazing person I've ever met. Twenty years of a better life than I ever could have imagined. I dated some jerks for sure -- I knew better than to marry them. People need to hold out. [/quote]

It’s a mix of luck AND  judgement. It’s impossible to know what life will throw at you and how people will change and grow around that. [/quote]

Yes but basic character doesn't change short of some physical or psychological reason.[/quote]

Then the luck was being able to suss that out before crises hits. Or not testing that out. [/quote]

NP - or luck that someone met this amazing person in the first place.  Not everyone does.

Also - the whole "basic character doesn't change" thing - some elements of a person aren't really activated outside of specific situations that, again, are impossible to predict.  I guess that's the "psychological reason," but it's also fairly common.  The bottom line is that it's lousy to judge others for "not holding out" and ignoring the role luck plays in all of our lives.[/quote]

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