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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I believe OP.

Mid-30s the top tier men are either married and fathers or soon-to-be fathers or dating younger.[/quote]

The relatively good looking divorced dads of means are dating much younger women. 40-yr old neighbor, dad of two young boys, moved in when he and his (successful, pretty, same-age-as-him) wife separated. Within 6 months he had a 25 year-old girlfriend who clearly thought he hung the moon. The 25-yr old (who doesn't even seem to have a job) has since moved in. A 35-yr old would know this guy doesn't hang the moon, and he knows it. He isn't picking the young dummy because she's pretty, he's picking her because he knows that deep down he's a loser and older women would sniff it out quickly.

So there's that phenomenon going on. Divorced men dating 20-something women because they know the 30-something women wouldn't want them anyway (or they at least fear this). [/quote]

You could be right, but as a mid-40s divorced dad, when I was first single I dated women in their 30s until three times in a row they wanted kids right away. That's when I updated my online dating settings to include 20s. Has nothing to do with thinking I hung the moon.

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So you could use a woman longer? This makes no sense. Society going downhill right from this post. All about what I can get out from a person short term. [/quote]

Nobody is using anyone. People date and seek companionship for all sorts of reasons. And a woman in her 20s who openly states “I don’t want children until my 30s” knows what she’s getting into if she chooses to date an older man. [/quote]

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