Reply to How long after giving birth did you get back to ... ?

Forum Index » Expectant and Postpartum Moms

Reply to "How long after giving birth did you get back to ... ?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We did it after the 6 week checkup. I was nervous and I made my husband promise to be gentle. It was fine, we resumed regular sex but I didn’t particularly enjoy it for a few months. It didn’t hurt, but I felt uncomfortable. [/quote]

I wish women wouldn't sat "We resumed regular sex" when it's really DH insisting and DW reluctantly complying. [/quote]

I wish people didn’t assume their experience is universal and anyone who says otherwise is lying. I wanted and initiated sex before 6 weeks with my first. With our second, we ended up waiting because we were exhausted, but nothing was wrong with my vagina. Two vaginal births, 0 stitches or complications. [/quote]

+1. I had stitches with my first but was back to desiring other activities before six weeks and then around seven weeks or so felt back to normal and ready (and eager!) for sex.

I have all the sympathy in the world for women with difficult recoveries and/or jackass spouses, but I do think important not to silence those who aren’t suffering in early parenthood. Women are often told to, basically, project misery and stress in order to be a “good” mom. I’ll never forget the nasty comments—“you should be at home, don’t you care about your baby”—I got from people who overheard me chatting with a friend over a freaking glass of wine at 4ish weeks postpartum after our first.

That is NOT to take away from those struggling—those experiences need to be heard too, of course! And the medical field/society treats new moms like crap.

But women who are doing well shouldn’t be assumed liars. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics