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[quote=Anonymous]	Demanding job is code for “I don’t know or care what goes on in my home but I will sure be critical of my wife”.  If you are so busy working, how do you know your wife screamed at the kids, and if you knew it, why didn’t you help her, if not in the moment but later “what can I do to make your life easier” or “Want one kid to stay with me while you drop the other off”, basically you need to convey that you care about her.

I told my husband, and reading this thread made me think of it, kid activities are the only thing really where you have to get the kid there on time, and pick them up on time and have them ready with whatever they need. It can be overwhelming. Also, women tend to get the side eye from the staff “next time, you need to remember a towel” if it’s camp, whereas I’ve seen the same same staff member tell a dad “That’s okay, we have a few extra”. It can be infuriating.

I’d start by doing anything and everything you can to treat your wife well. Do what she needs and wants not what you think she needs or wants. Listen to her, sometimes going out for ice cream can really make everybody’s day. Make sure you aren’t hiding behind work, and if your work really is that busy, do whtever she needs to make life easier, grocery delivery, make it happen. Taking a break to do something fun after supper, make it happen, you can’t work all the time. 
 
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