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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do understand the desire to share with someone they are being gossiped about. A friend A was really into and almost worshipful of friend B, confided in her without question. Friend B would not stop gossiping about friend A and sharing all her dirty laundry adding her own details to make it sound more scandalous but being close to both I could see friend B was being very disingenuous (I knew it was normal life issues but she made it sound bad). It's been a looooong time and I still wish I had spoken up at that time to clue friend A in but I did distance myself from friend B because her unkind personality didn't sit right with me.[b] I think it's best to judge anyone on your own personal interactions. It's why I often have different takes on teachers too, you can't listen to people embellishing gossip to make you join their hate train.[/b][/quote]

OP, is this in Bethesda, McLean or another close in suburban neighborhood? It seems like the areas with many SAHMs tend to be more catty.  Some of my best friends are SAHMs, but they make it a point to avoid the drama prone - who tend to be people from the area, and who need to control the narrative of their (rather primitive) "turf".  Someone pretty and/or successful moves in, and viola! a target and new "hobby" materializes - just stay away. [/quote]

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