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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t have much to add, but for the kids — would it be helpful for them to see their dad trying to get better? It could be a good life lesson to start to undo your husband’s damage on how to handle anger. I would consider therapy for your oldest to help him process what’s going on. He could gain new coping skills without feeling anger himself. [/quote] I hope so and that is part of the reason that I am sticking around while my husband is in therapy- if I left him now, he would quit and decline to work on himself alone, and the kids would be alone with him and his bad behavior during his 50% of the time with him. While I am here, he is motivated to do therapy and work on himself to save the marriage. The therapist asked him why he changed the behavior and became “good,” he said it is to save his marriage. [/quote]
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