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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry OP. I have a very complicated relationship with Christianity in part because many Christians (at least nominal Christians) suck. Your husband is a shitty person, that much is clear. What he does now is between him and God. I have not been in your position but I would counsel you to cut off your thoughts about him as much as possible with the knowledge that he is only the father of your children to you now. So he takes them go church, that is good for them, right? You want them to go to church. He is the car driver and nothing more as it relates to you. Unfortunately your kids are going to witness a lot of different kinds of hypocrisy in the church and the rest of the world and you will have to help them through that best you can.

But now your STBXH is God’s problem. You are free to make your own life better. Of course you are hurt and angry, it’s ok to feel those things. But soon I hope you will also find joy in not being tied to a shitty man (he doesn’t want to be a step dad - the new woman is not getting a prize here!) and your own life can flourish. [/quote]

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