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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Seriously people.  Getting "married" is one single day of your entire life.  If people spent half the time invested in their relationship than their wedding, we'd see a lot less divorce.  
It's not "cohabiting" or "trying someone out".  As an early 30-something most of my professional peers have lived with someone- most still with the same person- before getting married.  They did this AFTER having lived on their own (moving home with parents doesn't count as being on your own).  And... many operate separate financial accounts along with a few joint accounts.  Scary (insert sarcasm).

The idea that you will graduate from college at 22, get married and live happily ever after is a nightmare and completely unrealistic- both emotionally and fiscally.  
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This quote really changed my mind. I was of the camp that believed, "why milk the cow can we you can get it for free." i was married at the age of 24 and gave birth at 26. i went back to grad school and now work full time. my spouse just asked me to sign a post-nuptial document concerning the house we are about to move into. i basically get a small portion and hand over the rest to him. if i don't sign then he leaves. yes, stupid me. stupid life. so much for getting married at 24 to someone i didn't really know because i had not lived with him....[/quote]

Very sorry this is happening, such a low way to treat someone you promised to love and cherish.

Don't sign agreement. Don't move into house. Get a lawyer and file for divorce. If he is threatening to leave, it's only a matter of time before he does. And it will be better for you, he's an A**HOLE.
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Get a LAWYER pronot.  [/quote]

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