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Betrayed spouses speak of limerence in an attempt to convince themselves that their spouse's relationship with the AP isn't serious. What they refuse to admit, though, is that nearly all romantic relationships start with a crush/limerence,[b] including the one that they previously had with their spouse. Limerence will grow into lasting, meaningful love with time and attention.[/b]

That's the reason the wayward spouse has to go No Contact No Matter What with the AP if they are going to attempt reconciliation.[/quote]

And what APs refuse to admit is that they will never be able to trust that their AP won't ditch them once their affair becomes lasting, meaningful love the same way it did with his spouse.  Because next time he develops a crush, it's peace out and on to the next great love of his life. [/quote]

But really, literally no one can guarantee this. Nothing is a sure thing in this life. So many people are devasted and heartbroken for the rest of their lives because they fully expect their partner to remain faithful forever and ever. And when that fails, everything literally and figuratively just crumbles.

So what I’m saying is, I know people like to say a cheater will probably cheat again once they get bored with their AP. But so many people cheat, even ones you’d never think would and many who never get discovered. There’s just no guarantee that your own spouse won’t or hasn’t already stepped out. [/quote]

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