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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, my DH had an emotional affair. It was devastating, and it wasn’t nearly as awful as what your DH did. We are still together, and it took more than a year for me to recover from the affair. 6 weeks is nothing! Why would you expect to be feeling better yet?

I highly recommend survivinginfidelity.com if your goal is reconciliation. You will get good btdt advice there.

Take good care of yourself. [/quote]

Thank you! Not sure I expect to be feeling better, more I’m trying to understand what I’m feeling if that makes sense?   It’s kind of gone like this:

Extreme sadness 
Extreme anger 
Wanting to fix it all 
Questioning if I’m a fool and letting him “off the hook” 
Intense love for my husband 
Intense hate that he did this 
Obsessive thoughts about her 
Mix in more sadness, hopelessness, anger 
Then let’s dig in and work on this

To rinse and repeat kind of … [/quote]

You’re in the shock stage.

It’s early but by month 6 , you and your individual therapist should have tools in place to not ruminate.

Do you work? Can u leave it f you decide to?[/quote]

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