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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if your child seems to be using their bisexuality as a coping mechanism? Dd came out as bi after getting hurt by 2 guys within just a couple of months. This turned into a very clear pattern. She will have huge crush on a guy. When it doesn’t work out, she really leans into being bi and starts to pursue girls. It seems extremely obvious. I can always predict, down to the day, when she will add the pride flag back into her ig profile. She is currently dating a girl with close ties to the latest guy she was seeing and had a very hard time getting over. As soon as he got a new gf, she started dating this girl. 
Should I try to talk to her? Or maybe there’s nothing wrong with her doing this? To be fair, the guys did treat her pretty crappy, and I understand why she is leery of dating guys. I just don’t know if she is processing her pain in a healthy way. [/quote]

You should not talk to her about this.  I think you’re implying that you don’t believe she’s bisexual because she seems to have a specific dating pattern but straight women don’t like gay sex and don’t rebound to other women.  [/quote]

Yes, I realize that, which is why I hesitate to talk to her about it. I know that she would not do this if she wasn’t actually bi. That said, it does seem like she is more attracted to guys and sort of settles for girls. [/quote]

Maybe she's trying hard to be attracted to guys but has to reluctantly admit she's more attracted to girls.[/quote]

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