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[quote=Anonymous]Go with your gut, after having a very specific conversation with her about her options for the year and plans for the following. Defer if you can, in case a year of therapy, work, and whatever else make her more comfortable with the option she has now. I speak from experience. Sent our daughter off to a very big school she became nervous about late in the process but still wanted to go to in spite of the anxiety. She wound up miserable for a year. Lost a ton of weight she didn't have to lose. She is better physically and mentally but feels like she lost a year. And she is headed elsewhere to a much smaller school in the fall. But definitely have a plan in place - even if it is therapy and Giant. There is nothing wrong with taking the time to grow up a little more and address whatever the underlying issues are. [/quote]
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