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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you ever feel bad for the spouse (and/or kids)?  How did you reconcile entering someone else’s family like that.

Did you wish he/she would divorce or die so in your mind you could end up with them?

I’ve heard some really awful things from OW so just wondering anonymously what let you cross that line?

I got hit in a lot by married co-workers and others and my mind always went to their wife.  I never wanted to do that to another woman, even ones I didn’t know. If things got heated, I’d distance and put up a wall.  Things just don’t happen….[/quote]
I worked in a hospital several years ago. One of the nurses went aggressively after a guy who was in a prestigious radiology fellowship. He was married with kids and his wife had supported him all through med school and residency, but he chose to break his vows. The nurse got pregnant and became wife #2. She’s popped out 2 more kids and is enjoying the good life now. [/quote]

Her "good life" is bought at the cost of constantly knowing -- or obliviously trying to forget -- that , as the saying goes, "if he will cheat WITH you, he will cheat ON you." Maybe she's convinced herself she's his one great love, of course. Hope she enjoys her delusion and the "good life" she thinks she and her kids have. [/quote]
The man's marriage must not have been good if he's having unprotected sex with someone who isn't his wife. Some of you act like men are simply innocent babes roaming the Earth, unable to resist any sort of temptation. It's always someone else's fault when he cheats.[/quote]

Totally off the rails. Nobody said that.

OP is asking if people that knowingly sleep with have affairs with married people feel anything for the spouse/kids—-guilt, remorse, etc?

Basically, the idea of doing that to someone else is beyond repugnant.  Never have I banged someone married—and boy have I been hit on and offered.  I don’t do married people, before or after my marriage.

Really scummy.  This post wasn’t about the spouse, obviously that’s horrific—-it was directed at their accomplice.  [/quote]

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