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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People in these threads are always so weird about women wanting to get back with an ex, like no couple has ever broken up before and gotten back together.[/quote]

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Not "weird." Smart. Why invest any more time in this guy who realized she wanted more and decided to run? If they reunite, it'll be because she feels desperate and he just wants sex and is too lazy to find someone else. Then eventually he'll break up again when she once again gives signals she wants more commitment. Taking guys back in this kind of scenario is a waste of time and only delays the inevitable.

Yeah, couples have broken up and successfully worked things out and gotten back together as more mature and solid couples. It can happen. But that is not this specific OP's scenario at all. Did you actually read her posts? She needs to cut her losses, learn from the experience and find a better match with an actual grown man. She also needs to do some growing up herself and not be so desperate. [/quote]

Perfectly put.

In this scenario there's a high chance that if op and her bf get together he will leave again when he finds something else and very likely op will be worse off having invested more maybe a house together or children together. [/quote]

While I agree with the sentiment of the PP, it's pretty funny that it takes great pains to cast the ex as the immature one, when it's OP who is texting someone who said he didn't want to be with her to please take her back.  [/quote]

You are projecting [/quote]

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