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[quote=Anonymous]This isn’t a MIL issue; it’s a marriage issue. Your focus needs to be on your communication with your DH and your marriage. He wants to give it to her, and that speaks well of him. You have concerns, and that’s ok. The conversation needs to be about how you both get what you want. He wants to help his mom and feel like a good son. You want to ensure your own nuclear family’s financial security. Both of you may have to compromise some, but there is no reason you can’t meet both of your needs. Stop focusing on judging your MIL and start focusing on what you and your DH can do as a team to meet both your objectives. They are both achievable. [/quote]
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