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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you both have to figure out why he strayed. Only then can you decide if it’s fixable. I have been extremely extremely close to having an affair and it was agonizing. Ultimately the hurt it could cause my spouse is what stopped me but all the issues are still there. In a way, you’ve cut out the tumor, and now you can—perhaps—start healing. I still feel like a piece of absolute crap for thinking about someone else.[/quote] As a betrayed spouse, this is smart advice. We never recovered from DHs first affair bc we never really got to the root cause. And then it happened again… I am where you are - we are civil but also sort of frozen in place. It’s so so hard.[/quote]
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