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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This generation is EXTREMELY self absorbed, touchy and entitled, very little thing is a micoaggression or a T/trauma, everyone but them is a narcissist. They are like adolescents all the time with no tolerance for anyone but themselves, cross them and you are cut off. It’s therapy culture taken to a wacko extreme. [/quote] Nope. This generation understands more about dysfunction and abuse and stands against it. [/quote] +1. My guess is OP thinks she is still in charge and treats her adult children like how she did when they were younger. She likely never respected her kids or valued them as individuals. They couldn’t voice their opinion as a child out of fear. Now they are independent and don’t have to play by the house rules. OP is seeing who her adult kids are and this behavior was previously stifled because of fear. Deep down these kids resent their mother and aren’t close. They were likely criticized a lot as children and now the tables are turning. My own mother didn’t treat me well. She was unloving and very critical of me. I get the sense she disliked me as a person. She definitely didn’t respect me or understand it’s okay if I’m not like her. Now she seems confused as to why I’m not that kind to her. I am not mean to her, but I also don’t really respect her. It’s very hard to ignore decades of someone treating you poorly. [/quote]
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