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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Define messy. Do you clean the kitchen before going to bed? Or is he waking up to last night's dinner mess each morning? Do you throw clothes on the floor?  Are you eating on the couch and leaving crumbs all over? [/quote]

OP here. Meaning us leaving dishes in the sink from the evening before, not wiping down the counters, maybe some clothes on the floor, makeup on the bathroom counter, etc. I do clean up frequently, its just the periods of time when things aren’t clean that are causing the issues. [/quote]

Clothes on the floor? How old are you? When you take something off, put it away. This would annoy me from anyone over the age of about 2.

Makeup on the bathroom counter is gross. I don't understand how you could make a mess with that (I wear makeup daily and rarely does any of it end up on the counter), but if you do, you should clean it up immediately.

The dishes are weird if you're both eating off them - why wouldn't you clean then up together?

As for the counters, I'm pretty Type A but even I don't wipe the counters down completely after every meal three times a day.

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I didn't mean to post before saying that REGARDLESS of how messy you are, it doesn't excuse him blowing up at you about it. That's a huge red flag. [/quote]

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