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[quote=Anonymous]OP, unless your gf is a messy person in general or in her own place, don't assume the way she treats your place now will translate once you move in together. As PPs have mentioned, she is currently a guest, and may not have the same investment in your place as she would as a resident. I recently moved in with my bf after dating three years and just started cleaning other areas of the house, and this is coming from a neat freak who's dating the opposite! Previously I'd clean up after myself and the kitchedn if I cooked - he never asked me to clean otherwise - but it wasn't until I moved in that I felt comfortable getting down and dirty with his dust bunnies and such. If you care about this woman, revisit the conversation with kindness and compassion. [/quote]
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