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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That isn’t ruining Mother’s Day. Stop being dramatic and just hide their content from your feed. [/quote]

OP here. They get my mom upset and crying. This isn't really about me. I frankly don't care and actually do have them blocked. [/quote]

Then teach her how to block sibling’s feed.

This has nothing to do with Mother’s Day. [b]And you sound like the golden child defending a narcissistic parent. So you might want to look into that.[/b] [/quote]

This 100%  Sorry OP but this is a very common dynamic.

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Actually no. I dont know OP and her parents, but paying for college, grad school AND a house cash is not the behavior of a narcissistic parent versus the neglected child.

What’s likely from OP’s description is that their sibling had struggles like ADHD or similar, parents recognized struggles and gave sibling more attention because they recognized that sibling needed it. Sibling still struggled due to issues and suffered. When your brain is a mess and makes you live a messy life you suffer even if parents pay for grad school. [/quote]

Actually, this is EXACTLY what narcissistic parents do. Those things that they pay for come with MANY strings attached. They use them to control you. [/quote]

Oh great, now you’re imagining strings were attached, based on … absolutely nothing OP said. MANY all caps strings, you claim, based on…. What exactly? The you use these imagined strings to make a further huge leap to control and narcissism.

I hope you get the help you need. But projecting onto OP and her parents, especially when you add a huge dose of your own fantasies, isn’t helping anybody. [/quote]

I feel like OPs parents/other golden siblings have found this post....

All that was said was that buying gifts with strings attached is textbook narcissism, potentially invalidating your statement that paying for things for your kids is proof that there's no narcissism. That was the entire post that you just overreacted to.... 
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Except OP never said anything about strings being attached, you made that up. A parent can pay for college without attaching strings. [/quote]

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