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[quote=Anonymous]Nope. My MIL wants to treat our house like an Airbnb where you never need to book in advance and DH/I as her personal errand runners. She often doesn’t give us her travel plans until days before her arrival. She honestly expects to just call from the airport and someone will pop over. What she really wants is for us to give her a key and access to one of her cars and she can just fly in and do whatever she wants. She is insanely irresponsible and we don’t live in an area where leaving doors wide open, letting the dogs out the front door to run down the street, leaving your purse on the seat of the car while you run not stores would not result in disaster so she doesn’t get a key or a car. She feels entitled to have me or DH run her all over town because it’s his fault for not letting her take his car. Her errands are exhausting. She books things without regard to location or traffic so getting there on time is stressful. She is incredibly rude to service people when she is trying to get something she really isn’t entitled t get, she won’t tip, and is constantly prattling on about something.

This last time she once again ignored us telling her to check with us in advance. She booked for a terrible week school wise for kids and work wise for us. We said nope sorry, hope you have refundable tickets. She still came and stayed with a friend because we said no and her daughter SIL was out of town ( or hiding and just saying she was out of town).  We feel zero guilt. [/quote]

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