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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think I get what OP is saying. Her own kids do travel sports so it’s not like she doesn’t understand the schedule. It’s more the mentality of the parents acting like everything needs to be built around the sport… like missing a sleepover so they can be rested for a competition. It’s one thing if the kid doesn’t want to go, but it’s another to be all worried as a parent about your athlete child getting less rest for one night. Kids have a lot more energy than we do and we as parents should not be treating their sport like it is their [b]job[b] they need to be in top performing shape at all times. Not should we let coaches convince us that this is vital. They are kids, not college scholarship or pro athletes. Being a little tired at one game isn’t going to derail their “career”. I see parents worrying way too much about these things. Even just the language used, like “oh Larla plays soccer and then just does basketball for fun”. Um, what? It’s all supposed to be for fun, even if it’s a serious travel team. Those kids aren’t being paid to play the sport, you are paying someone else. If they really want to do something fun that might impact their performance temporarily, let it go. Parents here get waaaay too invested. They don’t realize that many of the best athletes with the longest careers have parents who are the opposite. [/quote]

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