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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The Mom in line was trying to be helpful, but even with a NT child that stupid line / threat doesn't work. Chastising an upset child doesn't work, period. She's a terrible a parent, verified.

I would have said, "it's not helpful to resolving this meltdown by threatening my child with special needs. In fact, you've made the situation worse, please stop so I can focus on this." "Oh, and next time, bring enough cookies for everyone."[/quote]

I agree with assuming the best of intentions. I don't think it's helpful to turn it around and chastise the adults for not bringing enough cookies. You don't know who decided to buy a dozen when  they only anticipated each kid would get one or 2. I would not accuse an adult of making it worse when the behavior was likely just ignorance. I would just advocate for my own child and increase awareness and education..."She has sensory issues. We are working on this with her." Take the high road and assume the best.[/quote]

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